You Need to be Judgmental

One of the most important lessons I have learned is the principle of focus on the basics. 

It applies to most facets of life. Whether it is training, getting girls, dealing with business owners or applying for a new job. You still have to go through the basics in order to get everything right. If you pretend you are rich and you purchase expensive items in order to impress the girl, but most, if not everything inside of you *is not* on point, she’s going to find out sooner or later. Same goes for a job that you apply to. If you haven’t really done or mastered what you said you were going to do, they’ll find out and you’re going to end up lookin really bad. Body language does not lie. It is so evident. 

Actually, let’s talk a little bit more about body language, because this is important. 

I maintain the notion that self-confidence and knowledge of you being able to solve a situation gives you proper body language that expresses charisma, aura and integrity. 

As a basic example, if I’m tying my shoe or pouring myself a cup of coffee, I display very confident body language. 


Well, because I’ve done these tasks many times before. They’re simple. I know how to do them. I do not need to ‘prepare’ for doing them. 

Now if you’d put me inside a boardroom filled with important CEOs, chairmen and members of the board and you asked me to ‘Get this deal done’ I’d be dead in the water. That’s not to say I wouldn’t have done everything I could have done to ensure landing the deal, but probably I’d make major mistakes along the way. 


Well, I haven’t been inside that many boardrooms, negotiating multi million dollar deals. 

But it would have been fun to try it. 

You can extrapolate this way of living and trying out new things to all facets of life. And you body language will mostly give you away. I don’t care who you say you are. When the rubber meets the road, that’s when you see what a Man is really made of. Yes I write Man because most of the readers of this list are probably men. And if you are a woman reading this, well I assume you can use that same way of living as well. You can always see it on their body language. 

And now for the TEP variant. 

Just to refresh your memory in case you forgot about it. 

TEP is short for Time and Energy Protection. 

And this where you’ll save yourself time and energy galore by applying one of the oldest tricks in the book, yet so many people are ‘warning’ you and doing their best to make you steer away from it. Oftentimes they say it’s rude and so on. Especially since *they* happen to be the ‘the victim’ and be on the receiving end of this old skool technique. 


What am I talking about? 

Oh, a very primal force indeed. 

I am talking about nothing else than good ole’ prejudice. 

Or as I like to call it, my gut feeling. 

‘There’s something off about that guy’‘He’s got a weird vibe.’

You know where I am going with this. I do not need to go into details in this regard. And if I do, that’s really telling. Because you really should know. If you haven’t developed a proper gut feeling and you do not judge people by their first impression and the vibe [or lack of] that they give off, you are most certainly in line to get killed one day. It is that simple. I’m currently reading ‘The Gift of Fear’ by Gavin De Becker who’s worked with security protection for important people for a lot of years. I’m not going to steal his content or quote the book except saying that gut feelings are sometimes what makes people survive terrorist attacks or avoid assaults on the street. Now, that’s not to say that everyone you meet are assaulters or terrorists. 

In fact, I do believe that my readers mostly will deal with calm and peaceful people. 

Well, calm in the grand scheme of things. 

Because there are other types of people that won’t necessarily try to kill you, yet present a real challenge and an obstacle you have to deal with in your life. 

And that is *The Energy Vampires* and *The Time Thieves*. 


They’re the ones that you have to deal with. 

I could go on and on about this, about all the red flags you need to be on the look for when it comes to these sorts of people. 

But, that’s for another time. 

As of right now, you need to look around yourself, in your own life, and find out who the real EV’s and TT’s are, how they mess up your life so bad and why you need to distance yourself from them, using this primal force of yours that has literally saved lives. 

And if this ain’t helpful enough and you request more help to deal with these distractions around you, my calls are always available for anyone. Just cough up your $500 and let’s get crackin’. 

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