Why Saying Yes Really Means No

IMPORTANT: For explanation of EE’s and EV’s/TT’s, see the bottom of this article.



This Might sound a little counterintuitive at first. 

But. Hear me out. It is really important if you think about it. 

You know how many people are surrounded by people who tell them yes? The Enablers? People who say yes to everything you ask and want to do, just to make you feel good. Long-term, they make for some of the worst ones to be around. Just think about it. They ain’t your friends. They’re not loyal to you. Chances are, you have something they want. Status, money, fame or some such. And. In order to make you like them, they insist on saying yes and enabling you to do whatever you want. Despite you, knowing, deeply inside of yourself, that what you arr about to do is wrong or isn’t productive. 

Do not lie to yourself.

You can lie to so many other people, but not yourself.


I think you know where I am going with this. 

Stay away from those people. 

Because, although they Might say whatever you’d like to hear, and you’ll feel in the moment that they are saving you time and energy, the inverse is true. 

Yes you may not have to do a boring chore right here, right now. 

But, because you didn’t put in the work when you should have, you’ll often have to do twice as much work in the end, eventually. 

So, you won’t ‘save’ yourself from anything. 

More, and this is where it gets interesting; I do not necessarily mean these people have to literally say ‘yes’ or respond to a question of yours in a positive manner.


Far from it.

I mean, these ‘yes people’ oftentimes *promote plans ans schemes to make you say yes to them*.

Read that again.

And now We’re diving into the plethora of online marketers, crypto influencer faggots and all the other garbage you see being promoted and advertised for online. Hell, let’s throw OnlyFans in there as well. 

I call most of it scams. 

There Might be one or two trustworthy programs to follow. 

But the majority is mostly scams. 

Just think about it; 

Little work. Short Time. Six figures. 

That ain’t how life works and you know it. So, you need to say no and find those around you who will. Else, what is going to happen? You’re gonna spend a lot more money Getting a lot less back in return. 

Saying no doesn’t always mean literally uttering the Word. 

It can mean rephrasing things to sound more logical and healthy.

And, I feel like I’m doing y’all a service by ending on a logical note here. Especially since I’m in the business of saying ‘no’ to people myself. 

Today’s pitch is as follows: 

If you want [expensive] coaching calls where I break down how to save yourself from a lot of time and Energy in your own life, then reach out to me and we’ll schedule a time and date. 

But if you’re broke, do not even bother.

Go Watch some free stuff instead. 

I cater to people with money who are happy to pay for investing in themselves. 

And with that being said, that’s it.

To be eligible for a coaching call, you must be a subscribed member of my email list. In order to do so, sign up here: https://t.co/yV1UfQAZTM



EE: Energy Enabler. A positive, happy and uplifting person that makes you feel good and who wants you to succeed. They always cheer for you and they want to Believe in you. Makes you want to want to go around and affect other people in the same way. Often good looking and successful. 

EV/TT: Energy Vampire or Time Thief. EV’s are Someone who brings you down mentally and psychologically. Often they attack you passive aggressively or they use your attention to make themselves feel good. Hardly or never compliments you. You feel like all life has been sucked out of you when you interact with them. TT’s are similar, only they are much more subtle.

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