IMPORTANT: For explanation of EE’s and EV’s, see the bottom of this article.
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…you go through something that is intimate.
And, do not worry as I won’t talk about anything candid in that regard. Whatever nasty fantasies you have, keep’em to yourself. Here, we preach plain vanilla stuff.
I am inspired by a video I made recently from something I read online. I think it was on Reddit. And, the topic in question was related to dealing with people who didn’t respect your boundaries. Like imposing on you and being very invasive. The World is full of such people. And you need to let them know that what they are doing is not fine. Because it takes away your precious time and leaves you in a foul mood.
You know those people who just cannot stop talking?
Like in, they go around from place to place just to make a point that isn’t even right in the first place?
They are like leeches!
They do not even Feast on your energy.
They Feast on your attention. And, by reducing your attention and not even giving them the answer they were looking for, but just a plain vanilla answer, you appear boring and disinterested in what they have to say.
So, that’s one way of dealing with things.
[And I go into details on how to tailor this to your unique situation, should you be interested in learning more. Keep on reading, it’s at the end].
But, I’d like to get to the main point.
Which is, our friend on Reddit.
The person in question told a story about going to a bar to Watch a sports game. And how they did not at all appreciate these outgoing people walking over to them, spewing out their silly nonsense, when they’re just there to Watch a game. And, in so doing, these people who Watch the game, have an intimate moment. To these people, being disturbed when they occupy themselves with an activity they enjoy, it’s like Getting caught with their pants down whilst doing some hanky panky in the bedroom.
No I am not joking.
It’s *that* intimate and *that* personal.
These EV’s who walk over and disturb you are like a swarm of flies.
In other words, not Welcome at all.
Better being a Welcome guest than an unwanted pest, right? [Think that’s a Dan Kennedy quote].
I’ve been nattering on about this for long enough. But, if you are one of these unwelcome pests who walk over and disturb someone, take a step back and think.
There is help to be given.
And I happen to know how to Give that help.
Likewise, if you oftentimes find yourself being disturbed by one of these fly swarms, know that there are tools you can use to deal with them.
And I am happy to teach either one of you. All y’gotta do is to make sure your pockets are deep enough and loaded with cash, ‘cause I ain’t in the business of being cheap. Man’s gotta eat! If you are financially tight, best search for some free and generic stuff elsewhere.
‘Aight, final pitch:
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EE: Energy Enabler. A positive, happy and uplifting person that makes you feel good and who wants you to succeed. They always cheer for you and they want to Believe in you. Makes you want to want to go around and affect other people in the same way. Often good looking and successful.
EV: Energy Vampire. Someone who brings you down mentally and psychologically. Often they attack you passive aggressively or they use your attention to make themselves feel good. Hardly or never compliments you. You feel like all life has been sucked out of you when you interact with them.