The B-Word that has EV’s jostling

IMPORTANT: For explanation of EE’s and EV’s, see the bottom of this email.

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Today I decided to do the inverse of what I normally do. 

You see, usually I wake up at Mondays and head right for the gym for a grueling training session. I won’t say the grueling part is what prompted me to skip today’s early Session. Although I could do with sleeping longer in the morning. 

It was rather the fact that normally I’ve had two workouts during the same day!

And whilst I am not one to recommend against training hard, I was sort of ‘running out’ of training Sessions to adhere to for the rest of the week. There would be days where I wouldn’t at all train – because I already had Trained during the other days. 

So, with some modifications, the number of training sessions ain’t going down. 

Instead I am simply just distributing them wisely. Like most people should. However I am not most people. I just like to keep myself occupied all the days with training. 

More, this is way of spreading the Energy expenditure and also absorption is a Great way of living life. If all you do is talking to 50 people for one day and then go into isolation for the other 6 days of the week, I sincerely think you are going to feel weird. 

Maybe you get your ‘dose’ of social communication, but it’s going to feel weird on those days where you never talk to anyone. Or so I think. Because I haven’t tried it myself. Nor do I intend to do so either. I’d rather talk to 10 people 5 days a week. Or 50 per day. Or Maybe 10 one day, 50 the next day and so on. There’s no need to be weird about it. 

Anyway, let’s head for the main point Which I always struggle to explain properly. But, I’m going to do my best irregardless. And that is, there should be some degree of balance in your life. This is what most people would agree with. However, here’s where I and most other people differ. Because, most of them use ‘balance’ as an excuse for not working hard. ‘Oh, I need to have balance in my life.’  and so on. Their ‘Balance’ is not working when they not feel like doing so. Instead they use the opportunity to relax, get fat and not work on themselves. 

Truly a disgusting way of living. 

That’s what I think. 

Because, I am UNBALANCED! 

Meaning, I work hard and attack on all fronts. So that I will get better results. And so that I feel better about myself. You always do that after a training Session, right? 

Now, instead, here’s what I mean by ‘balance’; 

Spreading out your work, be it training, business, social, family life, other commitments and whatnot and do a little every day. But when you train, you train HARD. When you work on your business, you do so relentlessly until you make money. When you socialize or go out, you do so with intent. 

Look.

All I’m saying is that I actually consider the above ‘work’ instead of coasting or relaxing.

My way of ‘relaxing’ is really staying at home, eating some junk food that I deserve and reading a book. Or some such. 

Let’s get back to the ‘Balance’ or B-Word as I like to call it. 

It is what attracts the Energy Vampires. They need their ‘Balance.’ Because they are inherently lazy when it comes to doing the hard work. Such as working on themselves. Instead, they are all about sucking the Energy out of others using mean words, backstabbing, gossip and lies. 

Because it is SO easier to ‘Give advice’ rather than actually working on oneself and leading by Example.

Alright, I’ve been going on for long enough, so it’s time for my pitch. 

I offer paid and expensive education for those who want to learn more EV’s and how to deal with them. But, if you are low on money and do not feel like investing in yourself, I recommend against it. Go Watch a free YouTube video or something. You’re probably not ready.

For the responsible kind, you can start by subscribing to my email list right here: https://aaryningen.gumroad.com/l/jqfju

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EE: Energy Enabler. A positive, happy and uplifting person that makes you feel good and who wants you to succeed. They always cheer for you and they want to Believe in you. Makes you want to want to go around and affect other people in the same way. Often good looking and successful. 

EV: Energy Vampire. Someone who brings you down mentally and psychologically. Often they attack you passive aggressively or they use your attention to make themselves feel good. Hardly or never compliments you. You feel like all life has been sucked out of you when you interact with them.

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